The right moment in time

If you've read any of my earlier entries, I talk a lot about the topic of time. Here's yet another entry. I'll begin by talking about how I always came out of relationships resilient, often times seeing new people faster than I think is healthy for my emotional well being. I've always had this mentality though that my true match is out there, and the longer that I wait, the greater the possibility that he might just pass me by. I have this idea, that every person out there could just be that perfect person. So if I decline the offer to get to know someone new, even if it's at a bad time of my life, I may be declining the once in a lifetime possibility to meet my true soul mate. However, what I've learned from my experiences is that the right person will come at the right time. So much of this is out of our control. I say this because I'm thinking back a few years when I met someone I thought was really interesting and fun. We were good friends, and would call each other up at random times to talk. I think there was chemistry and even potential between the two of us. I won't provide the details but it just seemed that the timing was always off. One person was always in a relationship while the other person was single. It seemed to rotate like that back and forth. Fate wasn't on our side. This is why I've come to the conclusion that I'll just let destiny manage my love life. In time, the right person with a complementary soul will come my way. To my lover, I wait patiently until the day we meet. Our meeting may be like the rare occurrence of an eclipse but our love will be eternal, beyond this material world.